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Me and My Big Mouth…

December 1st, 2003 Comments off

One of these days I’ll learn that this mouth of mine is nothing but trouble. When I was a kid, if it wasn’t spitting out atrocious piles of bull shit, it was verbally upchucking stuff I had no business revealing. Thankfully, I haven’t done the latter in years.

I can hear you already. “So what’d ya do this time?” Do you have any idea how incredibly, ridiculously stupid I feel every time I hear it? “What’d ya do this time, Rayne?” or “Boy! He’s in rare form. How’d ya piss him off this time?”

Yeah, yeah…I know. “But you’re such a good girl! How could anyone think that?” Did you guys miss my little excerpt on how Mrs. Perfect fell? Yeah, well, this time she fell harder. If that’s at all possible. Read more…

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Collars/contracts players only?

October 13th, 2003 Comments off

We all know that I’m all for “to each their own” and I don’t judge anyone. Sure I bitch about people’s actions and I grumble when people do things I think are wrong. Doesn’t everyone? But I am in no position to judge anyone, so I don’t. Not only is this philosophy (that collars and contracts are for “players”) totally against everything I’ve read and been taught, but it’s insulting.

Not only do I wear a collar (two actually) but Master and I also have a contract. Which actually needs to be revised because it still says I have a safeword. And on top of that, we’re married. Now perhaps an actual collar isn’t necessary. And maybe, for you, a contract is needless gibberish. There are those that would argue that the strongest collar is around the heart (I agree) and that contracts are in the mindset of Dom/me and sub/slave. That’s fine. But to go so far as to say they’re for “players” only? I think that is way off base. Read more…

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