Archive

Author Archive

30 Days of Kink: “Anonymous” Defines Their Kinky Self

June 12th, 2014 Comments off

30 Days of KinkFor the Cheer Melen Up Without Hurting His Back Giveaway, we offered bonus entries for the social media prize to people who defined their kinky selves for the 30 Days of Kink project. Here’s an anonymous entry we received. We love it.

Discovering my kinky self is going hand in hand with discovering my sexual self. In fact, a big part of discovering my sexuality has been realizing that I’m a bit kinky. It’s possible that these things will change as I learn and experience more, but thus far these things define my kinky self.

1) My kinky self is conflicted. Read more…

30DoK: Define Your Kinky Self by SeaofNeptune

January 31st, 2011 Comments off

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Neptune from Sea of Neptune.

From Neptune’s bio: I’m a beginner toy reviewer/blogger and a current college student. I live with a super awesome boyfriend and I am currently just trying to enjoy life.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Hi, my name is Neptune and I love all things kinky. I’m still a novice and I have been exploring this side of my sexuality for a bit of time now. My partner and I are still exploring and experimenting with each other, so right now we switch between the dominant and submissive roles. I am sure that he and I will continue to do so until we settle in our preferred role. For some reason, I tend to feel awkward being the Dom, but it always depends on my mood. When I think about being the Dom and planning things, I always shrink and become shy – but when it’s more in the heat of the moment, I have no issue. I don’t know why that is, I guess I just feel like the spotlight is shining on me and I freeze. Part of the reason I feel that being submissive is easier for me is because I am naturally dominant in regular life. I have a dominant personality; I am strong and willing to take control of everyday situations without an issue. So, I guess that I enjoy giving that up and having someone else take control. To make my decisions for me and tell me what needs to be done. The same may go for my partner as well, he is naturally laid back and willing to go with the flow. So I am sure he enjoys getting the chance to be fully in control for once. Read more…

30DoK: Define Your Kinky Self by Jade

January 17th, 2011 Comments off

Jade

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Jade of Pieces of Jade.

From Jade’s Bio: I am what you see here…and yet so much more.  These are just pieces of me, of who I am and what I do.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

As Scarlet Lotus says in her first 30 Days of Kink post, much of what I have been writing about all along in my blog has been about just that: discovering who I am in kink, musing on where I’ve been, talking about where I am now, exploring where I’m going. It’s been, and continues to be, a wild ride.

I’ve been practicing BDSM for about 10 years now, off and on, and in those years have learned much about myself and what makes me tick, and yet I am still learning, all the time, and it is still hard to pin just one label on myself. Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Perverted Imp

December 13th, 2010 Comments off

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Perverted Imp from PervertedImp.com.

Perverted Imp’s bio: Perverted Imp is a writer, a gamer, and an explorer. She is on a journey to find her bliss, to find her muse, and to live life with no arbitrary restrictions.

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

The first question seems simple. The second question leaves things far more wide open. The third asks for specifics. And the last oversimplifies the whole thing. Defining oneself is an ongoing process made up of all the other questions. So, one at a time, shall we? Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by 3

November 8th, 2010 1 comment

Isn't she beautiful? ~swoon~

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, 3 runs a small leather business called Nightmare Hides. Her stuff is pretty spectacular, so if you’re looking for some new leather, you should totally check her out.  One day, our budget will open up, and then I’m totally giving her my business.

Three’s Bio: Hi I’m 3, a 32-year-old artist and leatherworker. I’m a hedonistic, creative, and outspoken Aquarian, open to all the pleasure life has to offer. Having been in a D/s relationship for over 4 years now, I’ve never been happier!

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Switch/slave. I’m definitely not your garden-variety kinkster! People tell me almost every day, that a Switch can’t be a slave, etc. etc. I say Bullshit! I am a switch, have been a slave for 4 years, and I’m happier than I’ve ever been before in my life.

I submit to one man . . .my husband and Owner, Grendel. He is the only person that I trust more than myself. To me, trust is the foundation of a good Owner/slave relationship.  Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Rockin’

November 8th, 2010 Comments off

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, Rockin’ with a Cock In from Light Switch.

From Rockin’s Twitter bio: Sexual. Corporeal. Emotional. Writer of Light Switch. Reviewer. Lover.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Define your kinky self for us.

I identify as a switch, sadist, and masochist. I haven’t been comfortable with these identities for that long, so it feels a little strange just putting them all out there for you to read. Perhaps some background would help. Let me take you back to when I first learned about BDSM, which was in high school.  Read more…