30 Days of Kink
So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:
- TitsMcScandal defines her kinky self.
- Mistress Kay, from Kinky World, defines her kinky self.
- Our very own Dweaver defines his kinky self.
- 3, from Nightmare Hides, defines her kinky self.
- Rockin’, from Light Switch, defines her kinky self.
- Perverted Imp, from PervertedImp.com, defines her kinky self.
- Alison Tyler, author of Dark Secret Love, defines her kinky self.
- “Anonymous” defines their kinky self.
Hi I just started working on this here is the short link to the first post http://wp.me/pQ6md-2a
@Kathryn Added. 🙂 Thanks.
Also the wonderful Gabe & Elizabeth over at Pornocracy just started too!
http://www.pornocracy.org/blog/?p=764
@Scarlet Lotus Thanks for letting me know! I’ll get them added to the list. 🙂
Thanks for adding me to the list!!
I’m going to start it tomorrow 🙂
Thanks for adding me!
Thank You for adding me.
I’ve been working on this series as well, and I would greatly appreciate being added to the list.
http://girldeviante.blogspot.com/
I just started this on my own blog, I loved the idea and decided to go for it myself!
http://rosesthornesco.blogspot.com/
@K Adding you to the list now. 🙂
@Rose For some reason you’re getting caught by Akismet as spam. I deleted your second comment. Adding you to the list now. 🙂
@Everyone – Thanks for participating!
@Rayne – How weird!
How did I miss this when it was originally posted, and then the subsequent postings? Obviously I am sorely behind in my blog reading. Anyway, thank goodness for the many avenues of communication that is the net, and that I saw your post on Fet, right?
I am working on a way to incorporate this into my blog as well. What a great meme!
Jade
Hey, GREAT list!! I just wanted to chime in that I’m joining in on the kinky fun too!! Started day 1 today in fact… 🙂
@Jade @Evey Y’all are up! Thanks for participating. 🙂
This project was just the thing to inspire me to explore my kink and write about it! Thanks!
http://switchbackgirl.blogspot.com/2011/01/30-days-of-kink.html
I’ve started this project also, it’s going to be an interesting and eventful 30 days of blogging. I’ve given credit where credit is due.
=^_~=
*faceplant*
Helps if I put a link eh? *blush*
http://www.kari-rose.com/2011/01/11/30-days-of-kink/
@Kari Rose Lol. It totally does. Thanks… adding you now. 🙂
@Janey Arson Awesome! I’m adding you to the list.