Posts Tagged ‘Submissive Guide’

Rights and Responsibilities

April 29th, 2010 3 comments

This is actually in response to a post made by rayne named On Productivity, Insanity and Grilled Cheese Sandwiches. For everything to be in context, it might be a good idea to give her post a quick read, if you haven’t already. Part of this post is a response directed at rayne, and some are general comments.

Limits and expectations are things that should be worked out prior to a collaring. Once someone has made a commitment, in my mind that commitment should be kept.

I know with rayne and I there was a good month (and more, this after our “courting” period) where I bothered her daily to make sure she understood what she was agreeing to. This was in person, not over the net or phone, and rayne was well aware of what she was agreeing to prior to being collared.

This is a matter of trust. There are always a lot of discussions about slaves being able to trust their Masters. Dominant men (and women) don’t corner the market on crazy. There are slaves every bit as dangerous, and unbalanced, as these crazy Masters.

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Fucking and Punching Turns into Rambling

February 11th, 2010 6 comments

I can’t remember if I mentioned it or not, but I’m an official regular guest writer over at Submissive Guide, now.  My first official regular post went up today.  Lol.  It’s just an introduction.

And have y’all seen People can ask you questions there about whatever.  They don’t even have to sign in.  I’m on there if anyone’s got questions.  Or whatever.

Now that that’s out of the way…

The other day, Master walked over and grabbed me by the throat.  He put His lips close to my ear and asked, “What are you?”

“Slave” is no longer the correct answer.  “Property” doesn’t do it for Him either.  “Pig whore” is who and what I am in our dynamic.  And when I answered Him, He responded with “What are you good for?”

There are a billion answers to that.  There’s tons I’m good at.  But that’s not what He’s asking.  He’s asking, when it comes right down to it, what kind of treatment I deserve.  And, my eyes trained on the wall in front of me, I responded plainly, “Fucking and hurting.” with that half-embarrassed smile us girlies tend to get when we’re uncomfortable.  When the danger is crackling in the air.  Our hairs standing on end.

He ordered me into lingerie and leather and then to the floor beside His office chair.  And it was minutes before a tongue bath turned into a blow job.  Seconds before the blow job turned into me on the bed with my ass in the air and Him beating me.

I shot myself in the foot when I held still the other night.  He expects it all the time, now.  I almost didn’t get fucked because He managed to land a direct and solid blow to my clit and inner labia, and I shot clear across the bed.  I’m pretty sure, by the strength of the blow, even He wasn’t expecting it to land where it did.  And He granted me reprieve when I held still for the rest of the assault He committed against my thighs, pussy and ass.  Read more…

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Submissive Guide’s New Bi-weekly Newsletter

September 4th, 2009 2 comments

Have you been over to Submissive Guide, yet? If not, you’re missing out.  There’s tons of help for submissives, new and old, over there.  And now, Luna’s got something new.

Submissive Guide now has a bi-weekly newsletter that can help you improve submission and explore BDSM, just like the website.  Why subscribe to the newsletter?

  • Unique, quality content delivered directly to your email!
  • Essays and tips not available on the website!
  • Each newsletter is on a different topic, and you drive the suggestions for topics!
  • Occasional updates about Submissive Guide!
  • First chance at new promotions, contests, giveaways and new features!

And that’s not all….

When you subscribe now you will get Luna’s new report on Wants and Needs: Knowing what you need and expressing your desires absolutely free, just for signing up.  The report is 18 pages of useful and quality information that every novice submissive could use.

Get free, instant access to Luna’s new report “Wants and Needs: How to get what you need and express what you want” where she lays out the value of knowing and expressing your wants and needs… when you sign up for her newsletter.

I’ve already had the opportunity to read it.  (Thanks, Luna!) It’s good stuff.  Not only does she mete out the differences between wants and needs, but she throws in some exercises to help you with it.  So go check it out.  Seriously.
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