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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 5 – Safe Words

December 1st, 2010 1 comment

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 5:

Okay, so, every time I talk about this kink stuff, people keep screaming at me that I need to have a safe word, or my head’s gonna fall off.  What’s up with this safe word business, and why can’t I just say, “Hey, asshole! That’s not how I like it! Dial it down a notch.”? I mean, do I really need some super secret magic word to let my partner know that I need help in a scene?

Depends.

On what?

You and your partner.  Read more…