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Observations I’ve Made Based on M’s “Jokes”

May 18th, 2011 Comments off

This was actually written a couple weeks ago, and isn’t quite as relevant now as it was then. I’ve got a couple posts in the works that are more relevant to how things are going now. In the meantime, I thought something was better than nothing. Right?

When I get out of line, but it’s out of character with how I’ve been behaving lately, M has a tendency to make wisecracks about my behavior rather than reprimanding me. At least to start. If I don’t catch on, He reprimands. If I still don’t change my behavior, He punishes. These are some observations I’ve made about my behavior based on His “jokes”. Read more…

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BDSM and the Law: A Response to a Comment

November 16th, 2010 1 comment

Just a forewarning, since I’m only halfway through this, and it’s already 900 words. This is long. But it’s worth it.

On my post BDSM and the Law: Just One More Reason to be Cautious, Rockin’ left a comment that said:

So, I see what you’re saying, Rayne, but I’m still wondering about something. Don’t these M/s contracts have some way of getting out of them? I remember you wrote a while back on EdenCafe that you could tell M that you didn’t want to be owned anymore and he’d let you go. I think that’s only fair, and I would hope that anyone in a Master/slave or O/p relationship would have a known way out. I wonder what Gina’s was, if she had one. If she tells her master that “it’s over,” does that mean the power exchange? Does he have a right to beat her if there is no more consensual agreement? I understand that he has rights that she has signed over to him, but if she feels like she’s dissolving their contract, I don’t think he has the right to hit her, handcuff her, etc. Anyway, that’s the issue that was bugging me after reading the article and your post. Like you said, “Had either of them thought for two seconds before reacting, this probably could have been avoided.” and I totally agree.

I honestly don’t remember that comment, and have written far too many posts there to go back and search, but I don’t doubt that I said it.  And this is where I come clean.  Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Masterofslavej

November 1st, 2010 Comments off

Rayne’s asked a few of the bloggers around the web participating in the writing project Thirty Days of Kink for permission to repost their response to the question listed on Day 1.  Here’s Masterofslavej from Roles Defining Rules. Go here for his original post: Insatiable Desire’s Thirty Days of Kink.

From Masterofslavej’s bio: I am a pretty normal guy, all things considered. I am married and have a new born son, our first. My wife has been my collared slave for nearly ten years now and we were active within the Colorado scene for a number of years before a move to a small town kept us away from the happening places. Now, we are opening ourselves to the community at large for the first time in years.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

My kinky self? I am a dominant man. A sadistic, controlling, cruel man. Or at least I like to think so. I am interested in many aspects of BDSM, the fetishes, the control, ownership of a sex slave, the dehumanizing and humiliation that comes with owning a slave. I live a 24/7 O/p lifestyle with my girl jenpet, who has been my collared slave for over ten years now. We’ve spent the entirety of our adult lives invested in our lifestyle and there have been many changes and challenges along the way.  Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Scarlet Lotus

October 25th, 2010 Comments off

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Rayne’s asked a few of the bloggers around the web participating in the writing project Thirty Days of Kink for permission to repost their response to the question listed on Day 1. The first post is from Scarlet Lotus St. Syr at Purveyor of Pleasure. Go here for their original post: 30 Days of Kink: Define Yourself.

From Scarlet’s bio: I’m a genderqueer fat femme drag queen fagette and pomo queer intellisexual polyamorous switch. I have degrees in both Gender Studies and Psychology, both with an emphasis in sexuality. I am a writer, photographer, blogger, sex toy reviewer, and a sex-positive kink, queer, and sex educator. My spirituality comes in the form of sacred whoredom, scarlet womanhood, occultism, and magik. I am an astrologer and a practicing occultist, dabbling in multiple disciplines including sex magik, ceremonial magik, quabalah, and golden dawn, among others.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.  Read more…