Posts Tagged ‘Liberator’

NS(K)Q: Q63 – I have a disability. Can I BDSM?

March 11th, 2016 1 comment

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 63:

I’ve been interested in kink for a while. I finally got up the courage to poke around on Fetlife and see if I could find someone I’d be interested in playing with, and pretty quickly found a potential partner. But then I told him that I have a physical disability, and he told me that I can’t participate in kink. Without disclosing too much of my medical history, I can tell you that my disability doesn’t limit my day-to-day activities, but does limit the amount of time I can be bound before I find myself in excruciating pain. I know this from experiments with self bondage. But I still want to pursue BDSM. Can I do that, or is it somehow against the rules?

Honey, you can do whatever the fuck you want with your body, and don’t let anybody tell you any different.

But stay away from that guy because he obviously isn’t comfortable with playing with someone with a disability. I mean, maybe he could be, eventually, with some patience and practice. But it doesn’t sound like he wants to go through all that, and really, that’s his right. It’s shitty, and sort of ableist, but…I mean, do you really want to be topped by someone who doesn’t want to top you? I don’t.

And probably, you weren’t even considering trying to talk that guy into topping you, anyway. It just needed to be said in case someone in a similar situation is trying to talk someone into topping them. Read more…

Now I’m going to do whatever I want with you.

June 15th, 2015 Comments off

“I think you should go figure out a way to lay on the bed with your ass in the air without hurting your shoulder.”

It almost sounds like a suggestion, or even a request, but it was neither.

I wound my hair up into a sloppy bun and pinned it in place before making my way to the bedroom. The Wedge was already out, so getting into position simply meant putting it in the middle of the bed and kneeling over it. I pulled my pillows over, too, to help support my upper body so that all my weight wasn’t resting on my shoulders, and snuggled in.

He took his sweet time joining me. Anticipation is a motherfucker. And as I knelt there, my ass lifted and thighs spread, I could feel it building in my stomach. Which, of course, translated to slippery heat building in my cunt. Read more…

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Liberator: Not Just For Sex

June 1st, 2015 1 comment

If there’s one adult company I really wish would clean up its act, Liberator would be it. Seriously. Without our Liberator gear, I think both of us would have had a lot of sleepless nights in the past couple years, and definitely this last week.

I mean, we don’t have a guest bed. Ffs. Where would we store our bikes if we had a bed in the second bedroom? Which I suppose is less of an issue, now.

I’m really upset about my bike. Read more…

#ToyWithMeTuesday – Sake, anyone?

June 18th, 2013 4 comments

There are lots of toys in that pic! The paddle is the Mahogany and Koa Frat Bat from Maui Kink. The rose is a feather rose Master bought me ages ago from Extreme Restraints or JT’s Stockroom. I forget which. The bluish purple background is the Liberator Throe. And that black thing they’re all displayed on is the Liberator Flip Ramp with cover. Read more…

Product Review: Zeppelin Cocoon by @Liberator

February 5th, 2011 12 comments

Ooo, what’s that?

Pretty much we’ve died and gone to Liberator heaven. M and me, I mean. I’m sitting here at a complete loss for words.

You’ve heard me talking about it on Twitter and FetLife. You’ve seen pictures of my brat cat laying on it. And if you’re super lucky, I’ve linked you to the product page a hundred times. We’re just totally in love with this thing. So in love with it, in fact, that we’re seriously considering trading our bed in for one of the larger versions. That’s no joke.

It’s the Liberator Zeppelin Cocoon, and it is, hands down, my favorite Liberator piece so far. Read more…

Sex furniture? What sex furniture? It’s a giant cat bed!

January 22nd, 2011 12 comments

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