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NS(K)Q: Q39 – What’s stopping me from reporting your “owner?”

November 5th, 2014 20 comments

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 39:

I don’t believe in BDSM. You’ll never convince me that women actually like being beaten and controlled. In fact, I think all of you submissives need a good dose of feminism to wake you up and show you how you’re helping the patriarchy. What’s stopping me, or someone like me, from reporting your “owner” to the police?

~deep breath~

Where to begin…

First of all, let’s look at this “feminist” idea that women are too stupid to know they’re being manipulated, shall we?

Because you know that’s what you’re saying, right? Read more…

Come over here and put this in your mouth.

October 18th, 2014 2 comments

I looked at him, and he was aiming his semi-erect penis at me, his fist wrapped tightly around the base of his shaft.

I dropped what I was doing and sat on the floor between his feet. I wrapped my lips around his cock, and worshipped its length with my tongue. He fisted his fingers in my hair and pushed my face into his pubis. I breathed in his scent.

“I’ll probably still cum in your mouth but go bend over. I want to fuck you.”

I didn’t close the window. I didn’t even think about it until he pulled out of me and brought back the cane. Read more…

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There’s just something about…

October 9th, 2014 Comments off

…him locking your wrists behind your back.

…the way he guides you to your knees.

…his fingers knotted in your ponytail.

…the way his fist in your hair demands you trust him.

…letting go, and trusting him.

…him fashioning your back into a deep arch.

…the way the angle leaves your breasts helpless and yearning.

…the way the head of his cock feels between them.

…being supported by his strength even as he thrusts as hard between your breasts as he would between your legs.

…the harsh growl behind his lips when he orders you to watch him cum.

…the pride you feel when he drops you to the floor and says, “Good girl.”

…the relief of having your wrists released.

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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 32 – No Possessions + Isolation = Consensual Slavery? (revisited)

October 2nd, 2014 4 comments

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 32 (revisted):

I met this dominant on the internet, and they say that if I want to be owned by them, I have to sell all my belongings, quit my job, sign my kids over to my ex, cut ties with my family, and move to live with them in the middle of nowhere with no ties to the outside world, or even a backup plan. I dunno that I’m comfortable with that. Does that mean I can’t be a slave?

After reading the comments on my original post on this subject, I felt like maybe I misspoke, or was a little too vague. I feel like it came across as me saying this kind of dynamic is wrong, and that’s not how I meant to frame it at all.

I want to go officially on the record and say that there is nothing wrong with making the decision to give up everything for your owner. Many people have done it. Many people find it invigorating, empowering, and life-fulfilling.

My snark in the first paragraph of the last post (found here) was aimed at the woman who seemed to think her way was the only way, not her way in and of itself. Read more…

No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 34 – What if I don’t like S&M?

September 23rd, 2014 Comments off

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 34:

I’m really interested in being a dominant/submissive/switch. I have quite a few fetishes, but hurting someone/being hurt is not one of them. What if I don’t like S&M? Does that mean I can’t dominate/submit/switch?

Nope. And to be honest, dominating and submitting without S&M can be just as beautiful and require a great deal more creativity. Read more…

Sometimes, you just need to explode.

July 11th, 2014 4 comments

Through The Fire by Melen - click to enlarge

Through The Fire by Melen – click to enlarge

I have a really bad habit of screaming at Master over things that he has no control over.

This summer, as you know, has pretty much sucked. Master’s back has been out of commission, for the most part, since last September. There have been weeks that we haven’t left the house once because he was in too much pain. I’ve ordered more groceries than I’ve physically gone shopping for.

If you’ve known us long, you know this isn’t normal for us. We usually spend every nice weekend hiking, or camping, or riding our bikes (except last year, when we allowed ourselves to play the victim for a little while), or cooking out, or something. We even used to go to the farmer’s market every Sunday to pick up fresh picked everything, organic meats, and local wines and cheeses. We have done some cooking out, but not as much as we used to. We’ve been hiking twice in low impact areas. And we haven’t been to the farmer’s market once. Read more…

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