NS(K)Q: Q54 – Not A Happy Secret
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Question 54:
I just found out I’m a secret. I’m not really sure how, because I’ve had dinner with the wife, but she for sure doesn’t know. I’m not feeling it. At all. I have no idea how to handle this. Should I confront him? Should I tell her? At the same time? Separately? What do you think?
Ouch.
Okay, calm down, and don’t do anything stupid. That’s what I’d be telling myself in your situation.
Falling under the heading ‘Anything Stupid’ would be confronting him and telling her at the same time. You literally just found out. You have no idea what the situation is. Read more…