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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 32 – No Possessions + Isolation = Consensual Slavery?

September 9th, 2014 3 comments

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 32:

I met this dominant on the internet, and they say that if I want to be owned by them, I have to sell all my belongings, quit my job, sign my kids over to my ex, cut ties with my family, and move to live with them in the middle of nowhere with no ties to the outside world, or even a backup plan. I dunno that I’m comfortable with that. Does that mean I can’t be a slave?

Once upon a time, I knew a slave who claimed she’d done this. She probably still haunts the internet, but I intentionally stopped reading anything posted by her because I got tired of reading about how she sold thousands of dollars worth of designer shoes, clothes, handbags, and furniture to move out into the middle of nowhere and become isolated and enslaved, and how that made her so much better than the rest of us. She and her friends say she wasn’t saying she was better than everyone else, but I once read something she posted in which she said that if you didn’t live like her, you weren’t a slave, so…yeah. Read more…