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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 20 – Too Submissive for Mistakes?

November 11th, 2013 4 comments

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 20:

A few days ago, I was on Twitter, gabbing away with my kinky friends, when a tweet-rant went by from a kinkster who says they don’t need a punishment dynamic because they never do anything wrong. This kinda made me feel like shit. I do get in trouble from time to time, and I definitely make mistakes. How long will it be before I’m so perfect a submissive that I won’t need a punishment dynamic?

Oh boy. Do I feel your pain. In fact, M and I were discussing this just the other day.

I was settling myself on the couch to play PS3 before the Saints game started. Master turned to me and said, “I’m so sick of reading this shit.” as if we were having a conversation about “this shit” before I joined him in the living room. Read more…