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Melen’s Birthday Question Answers! (part 2)

October 28th, 2013

Melen’s passion is photography. This is pic he took of a nearby house that was owned by collie breeders and was abandoned after a fire broke out in the kitchen. The house was still decked out in 70s garb. Click to enlarge.

The second installment of answers to questions you asked Melen for his birthday giveaway. Find the first installment here.

PropertyofPotter asked:

What’s your favorite season and why?

I guess fall, if I had to pick one. I like each season for different reasons. Spring because everything is starting to grow. Summer because, well, that’s a no brainer. I live in Upstate NY, so fall is awesome with the leaves changing color. And winter because it gives me a better appreciation for the other 3 seasons.

Do you still have fantasies that have yet to be fulfilled?

Always. I figure once you fulfill a fantasy, might as well replace it with something else. At the moment, those fantasies involve rayne and another girl. I haven’t met the right girl yet, tho.

Do you have a bucket list (sexual or otherwise)?

Not really. I’m horrible at keeping lists. I’m even worse at following them.

How obvious do you make your lifestyle known when you’re out in public?

I suppose if people really paid attention, and knew what the lifestyle was about, it would be pretty obvious. She wears her eternity collar everywhere, and it’s hard to miss. That being said, I generally don’t exert control in an overt way in front of people that aren’t aware or are uncomfortable with what we do. Most of the time, if there is a problem, a look, a poke or a whisper gets rayne’s attention, without putting our entire lifestyle choice in other peoples faces.

Do you ever enjoy softer, sweeter forms of play?

Sometimes. Rayne isn’t just a sex toy, and I love her, so sometimes we have mostly normal sex. Gotta have variety and all that.

How do you feel about the stereotypes surrounding a dom/sub lifestyle?

Stereotypes of any kind are really annoying, but in a D/s situation making any kind of assumptions about someone can be dangerous.

How open are you with your family about your lifestyle?

My oldest son knows, and my mother, but to be honest I don’t talk to anyone in my family very much, so it’s a non-issue for me. I haven’t actually spoken to my mother in years. As for rayne’s family, I think some of them know about this site, so I would assume that they know. For the most part, we try to keep things to ourselves. We’re in a relationship with each other, not with our families.

Do you have a sensitive side?

I do, and I never understood why people think dominants aren’t sensitive. It’s probably due to the excessive amount of horny posers that like to jump into chat rooms and be all like “GR, I AM DOMLY DOM, MY BALLS ARE MADE OUT OF STEEL AND I HAS NO FEELINGS?!?!” I hate those douchebags. Seriously. Anyone who thinks being a dominant requires having no emotions is somehow mentally unstable, and probably missing the point entirely.

Thankfully, I enjoy (? I suppose that’s debatable sometimes, heh) a full range of human emotions. My hope is that I come across as firm, but not inhuman.

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