Archive for October 17th, 2013

Melen’s Birthday Questions Answered! (Part 1)

October 17th, 2013 2 comments
M plays around with 3D graphic programs from time to time. This is one of the fractals he's made. Click to enlarge.

M plays around with 3D graphic programs from time to time. This is one of the fractals he’s made. Click to enlarge.

Here are some answers to some of the questions you asked Melen for his birthday giveaway!

Camryn asked:

Why do you believe women should be submissive to men?

This is a difficult question to answer. At least in the beginning, it was upbringing and religion. I was brought up that the man was the bread winner and that the woman handled the children and the house. Wives obeyed their husbands and all of that. Obviously, that isn’t very realistic these days, for many reasons, not the least of which is that many families (couples, or whatnot) can’t survive on only one paycheck.

I guess now it’s just part of my “kink”. I’m a heterosexual male, a bit of a sadist and control freak. So, for me, women being submissive fits into my view of life.

This question is deserving of an entire post, after much thought on how to present what I’m thinking. I will say this, tho. I don’t have a problem with male submissives. I do not think all men are dominant and all women are submissive. I have never had a problem with a woman as a boss, as long as she’s qualified. I have no issues with working with a woman as an equal, outside of the bedroom anyway.

As with most things, my opinion is constantly evolving. Read more…

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Dan Savage is ridiculous.

October 17th, 2013 16 comments

frustrationSo today, tweeted about Dan Savage’s assertion on Big Think that monogamy is ridiculous. Just imagine me sitting here screaming “Arrrrrrgh!!!!” with my head in my hands, and my face all screwed up in frustration. It looks something like this: ->

Only I needed my hands to take that picture, and I apparently forgot to look at the camera.

Okay, maybe that’s closer to my psycho face. I hope you didn’t have a baby in your lap when you clicked the link that brought you here. And if you did, I apologize. I’m not really in the habit of scaring babies.


So you have some reference for what I’m about to bitch about, watch this: Read more…

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