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30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by @AlisonTyler

October 9th, 2013 2 comments

2013-09-03 20.40.26Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Any reader who has followed me over the years will be shouting out the answer for you. “Sub! She’s a sub! Oh, god, is she ever a sub.” But the world isn’t simple like that.

In The Delicious Torment, the sequel to Dark Secret Love, I wrote:

When Alex shoved the prison strap in my hands, I wanted to laugh. Yeah, there were plenty of times when I had wanted to beat him, to fuck with him, to take him down not only one peg, but several. But now wasn’t one of those times. How can you hurt someone who’s just asked you to fall in love with them?

No, that’s the wrong question. Jack would easily have been able to whip me after a similar encounter. So the difference is more fundamental than that. I’m no top.

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