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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 19 – 50 Shades of Exercise

September 30th, 2013 Comments off

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 19:

So, I was reading 50 Shades of Grey, and Christian requires Anastasia to meet with a personal trainer. He says it will further her body’s ability to accept the things he plans to do to her. Should I be working out, or something? Am I gonna get hurt if I don’t?

If you’re using 50 Shades as a BDSM guide, you’re already doing it wrong. However.

There are certain activities that are easier to handle and/or perform if you’re physically fit. This is true of everyday life, BDSM, athletics. A person is not going to just go from sitting on the couch all their life to winning a marathon overnight. Similarly, one must train their muscles to stretch and bend to be comfortable (or not dislocate a joint) in some of the positions riggers like to tie their victims. Read more…

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