Archive for September, 2013

No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 19 – 50 Shades of Exercise

September 30th, 2013 Comments off

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 19:

So, I was reading 50 Shades of Grey, and Christian requires Anastasia to meet with a personal trainer. He says it will further her body’s ability to accept the things he plans to do to her. Should I be working out, or something? Am I gonna get hurt if I don’t?

If you’re using 50 Shades as a BDSM guide, you’re already doing it wrong. However.

There are certain activities that are easier to handle and/or perform if you’re physically fit. This is true of everyday life, BDSM, athletics. A person is not going to just go from sitting on the couch all their life to winning a marathon overnight. Similarly, one must train their muscles to stretch and bend to be comfortable (or not dislocate a joint) in some of the positions riggers like to tie their victims. Read more…

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It’s like all I ever talk about, these days, is how much life sucks.

September 26th, 2013 7 comments

imageI’m having a bit of an identity crisis, lately.

Master’s hurt his back, and there is fuck all I can do to help him.

We need stuff in the house, but we can’t go shopping because I don’t drive and he’s not allowed. Though the whole process of going to the doctor, getting X-rays, and buying his prescriptions didn’t break us, as we feared, we still don’t have a lot of money, even though we’ve both done side work. Getting the things that would lessen his current pain and the chance of this happening again is so insanely out of our reach it’s depressing.

There’s nowhere comfortable for him to sit or lay in this house. We need a new mattress; the one we have is 11 years old. We need a new couch; the one we have is a shitty futon from WalMart that busted a weld the first time we sat on it because one of the rods was cut too short. We need better kitchen chairs so he can sit comfortably when he works, or to turn the front bedroom into an office. He needs new shoes that are not from WalMart or Payless so there’s actual support.

It all sounds very superficial, and makes me feel gross because I know people who don’t even have a mattress, but if you’ve ever had a back problem, you know how important good furniture and shoes are. Read more…

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Take Chances

September 25th, 2013 Comments off


Found here.

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Little Lightning Bolts v. Rayne’s Clit

September 23rd, 2013 7 comments

Capture“No, I’m not getting this out to play with you,” he said, as he moved the stack of erotica off the Neon Wand box, and took off his wedding ring.

“No fair!” I yelled, as I continued to go about my business.

“Why would I try it on you first? That’s dumb,” he retorted.

“You’re such a good dom,” I said, rather patronizingly. Master tries everything first. Video games, books, cooking some new recipe we’ve found…he sees it as his right as the master. I suppose he’s right, but I don’t have to be happy about it.

If you’re about to say I should be happy if he’s happy, just stfu. I know you know I know this.

“Well, if I’m going to cause excruciating pain,” he said, “I want it to be intentional.”

Gee, I thought as I watched him run the toy up and down his arms and legs. Thanks. Read more…

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Review: Liv 2 by LELO

September 16th, 2013 2 comments
Ignore the blue box in the background...used it to make the colors pop.

Ignore the blue box in the background…used it to make the colors pop.

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Ooo, what’s that?

Awhile back, I picked up the LELO Liv from one sex toy store or another. I remember seeing it in lime green and thinking, “I’m a purple girl, all the way, but lime green is just too cool to pass up.” I mean, so many sex toy manufacturers stick to pinks and purples, so it was super cool to see a lime green sex toy that wasn’t toxic and didn’t suck.

Then I got this email from LELO, all, “You know that lime green vibe you bought but never reviewed? We just came out with a new and improved version, and we’d love for you to review it!” Okay, they probably had no idea I bought and never reviewed a Liv, but you get the idea.

That purple Liv, up there, is the brand new Liv 2. And I like her…but I’m thinking maybe LELO and I have different definitions of “stronger” and “softer”. Read more…

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Blog Digest – e[lust] #50

September 16th, 2013 Comments off

mia-300x225 Photo courtesy of Down the Rabbit Hole

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #51? Start with the newly updated rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

When the sex isn’t great

The Least You Can Do

I don’t know how to dominate

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~


Why I Need Him There.

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

First lesbian love

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy! Read more…

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