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Even Sex Slaves Have Slumps

June 10th, 2013 Comments off

WindowsThere was no Sinful Sunday this week because I wasn’t feeling very sinful. I was feeling achy and depressed and a bit sick to my stomach. And it was only partly because of the monthly monster.

I’m still freaked out about potentially losing all of my writing. We’re pretty sure the hard drive is fine, but apparently it’s some special type of hard drive, and M isn’t sure we have acces to what we need to get the data off.

Luckily, by yesterday afternoon, we had a line on an older laptop that just needs more RAM for me to be able to run all the programs I need, like Photoshop. And WoW.

What? WoW is totally necessary. (We play on a free private server.) Read more…

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30 Days of Kink: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

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30 Days of KinkFor the rest of this series, and links to others who have participated, click here.

I’ve been mulling over this for quite some time. Mostly because I’m not entirely sure what the asker is asking. I mean, are we talking about things like SSC, and RACK? Or are we talking about etiquette with regard to kinky meetings? Or maybe we’re talking about the morality of the whole shebang? I dunno. I’m confused. So I’m gonna talk about all of the above!

Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC):

This basically means exactly what it says. That a person claiming to live by SSC only participates in what they consider safe and sane acts, and that all parties involved have agreed to be involved and have given permission for what’s going on. Some people also believe it means all parties involved must be completely sane to be able to give consent. Some laws say so as well.

M and I… don’t really subscribe to that philosophy. And not just because we like to make up the rules as we go along!

I told you I could hear you.  Read more…