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30 Days of Kink: What are your hard limits?

June 3rd, 2013 3 comments

30 Days of KinkFor the rest of this series, and links to others who have participated, click here.

To answer that question, one must first know what a “hard limit” is.

A hard limit is something that you will never, ever, under any circumstances, participate in. Either it grosses you out, or it’s a trigger of past abuse, or it’s against your moral fiber, or it’s just not something you want to do. But regardless the reason, you’re not interested in trying it.

Generally speaking, people consider anything illegal or immoral a hard limit they don’t have to mention. Things like including family or kids in the dynamic, non-consensual anything (torture, rape, imprisonment, etc.), murder, disfigurement or dismemberment, and bestiality are on this list.

I hear your question. Why would anyone have to mention those things? Read more…