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No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Episode 12 – Toy Bags

February 2nd, 2011 4 comments

NoStupidKinkQuestionsGandhi said that if you want to change the world, you have to be the change you want to see. To that end, Insatiable Desire brings you No Stupid (Kink) Questions, a series of questions asked by novice kinksters around the web. If you have a question for us, leave it in comments, or send it to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with “NS(K)Q” in the subject.

Question 12:

I’m just starting this submissive gig, and people keep talking about things like “bonded” toys, and such. What the heck is a bonded toy? Do I need my own toy bag? And if so, what should be in it?

A “bonded toy” (there are other terms, but this is the one I’ve heard the most) is a toy that is made of a material that is unsafe to share between partners without some form of protection because it’s been used by someone without protection. So, like, a leather whip someone’s bled on, or a TPE toy someone inserted without a condom. Read more…