30 Days of Kink
So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:
- TitsMcScandal defines her kinky self.
- Mistress Kay, from Kinky World, defines her kinky self.
- Our very own Dweaver defines his kinky self.
- 3, from Nightmare Hides, defines her kinky self.
- Rockin’, from Light Switch, defines her kinky self.
- Perverted Imp, from PervertedImp.com, defines her kinky self.
- Alison Tyler, author of Dark Secret Love, defines her kinky self.
- “Anonymous” defines their kinky self.