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And the winner is….

November 1st, 2010

You guys! You really brought it for this contest! We had 241 entries for the Succu Dry! We only had 152 for the Roses Flogger! I thought for sure, with this audience, it would be the other way around.

First! Let’s answer those questions y’all asked M, shall we?

Selective Sensualist asked:

I was just wondering, what is it that you have against poor, innocent little Fleshlights that enables you to allow them to languish, forgotten and broken-hearted, in a corner to collect dust? I always imagined stroker sleeves to be the ultimate sex toy for men. What, in your opinion, ultimately is the best sex toy to give as a gift to the man in my life?

M answered:

The best sex toy you could give to your man is yourself, in my opinion. I don’t masturbate, unless it’s a joint thing where rayne and I are having one of our several hour fuck-fests, and we’re watching porn. It doesn’t really interest me, and I don’t really have any need as I can get what I want, when I want it, from rayne. I’m spoiled, basically.

Madeira asked:

Do you have any tips on disciplining masochists?

M answered:

The biggest tip is the most obvious: avoid using pain for punishment. There are different levels of masochists, and one can always exceed the punished one’s limits, but in my experience punishment isn’t a good time for expanding limits. Think more mental; a good mind fuck can be used for discipline. I’ve been known to use a number of different methods. I’ve used writing (essays requiring research, repeating lists such as rules free hand several times) and I’ve used things such as hanging rayne on a St. Andrews cross, gagged and blindfolded and left alone for a period of time. It’s hard to give good examples, because it really depends on being able to get into the masochist’s head and knowing what really makes them uncomfortable. You need to really know how to get into a masochist’s head and find what really makes them squirm. Hell, that’s half the fun of having a masochist at your disposal.

Beanfiddlers asked:

This is probably a super common question but I always ask it of people and get different answers every time. How is it challenging owning a slave and what do you like about it?

M answered:

It can be very challenging, especially if you own a 24/7 slave that is with you nearly every minute of every day. Ultimately it is my will that wins out, for anything, but it doesn’t always go so smoothly. There are constant attempts at improving communication and we’re always working on consistency (especially during weeks where I work 12+ hour days). There’s an added difficulty in that I desire rayne not just as a piece of meat (tho, she is that as well), but also as my wife. Emotions do add to the difficulty in maintaining a 24/7 Master/slave relationship (tho I wouldn’t trade it for the world). There are times the slave needs one thing, but the wife needs something different. Making difficult decisions, such as how to deal with a situation like that, is part of being the one in control, but it’s not always easy. There’s a fine balance that needs to be maintained.

That being said, it’s infinitely rewarding as well. The positives, if you have a good relationship foundation, greatly outweigh the negatives. And having to work at it makes it more valuable. I do this partially because I believe this is how the order of things should be. My sadistic nature can be satisfied, along with the more vanilla needs, such as companionship with someone that I don’t need to hide a single thing from. Any sexual urges I have are satisfied how and when I want them to be, and what guy wouldn’t love that?

I’ll admit, I’m very much an introvert, so having a single person this close really meets my needs. Your mileage may vary, of course.

He’s got a way with words, eh?

I know.  I know.  You don’t care about that.  You wanna know who won.  Well… I used the Random Number Generator to pick a winner, and came up with Sexy Sweetie Shannon!

Shannon, shoot an email off to rayne (at) insatiabledesire (dot) com with your shipping info, and we’ll get your Fleshlight out ASAP.  Congratulations!

Thanks for entering, y’all! And keep your eyes peeled for a new contest in December! We’re giving away something from Liberator!

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  1. Selective Sensualist
    November 1st, 2010 at 18:02 | #1

    Wow, those are really thoughtful answers, M! And I LOVE your response to my question (not that they weren’t ALL great answers ’cause they were!).

    Thanks for hosting this fun contest and congratulations to Sexy Sweety Shannon! 🙂

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