Archive for October, 2010

HNT – Waiting

October 28th, 2010 2 comments

Ages ago, when M did the shoot that resulted in me looking like a scruffy slave, He took a bunch of other shots that never got posted.  Here’s one of them.  I think I was waiting for Him to be ready to get in position to take the picture I was going for.

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It’s personal. And delicious.

October 27th, 2010 1 comment

Isn't she amazing? That's Sabrina Fox in a Training of O shoot on Those eyes! ~swoon~

I was going to write a Thirty Days of Kink post.  I even went looking for an “erotic photo” so I could further shirk my duties as a sex kink life blogger by not even writing a post specifically about anything more than an act I find hot.

I’m still fighting the urge to write a Thirty Days of Kink post.  Prompts are easy.  Prompts enable me to avoid the thoughts swirling around inside my head.  Not that the thoughts swirling around are bad, per se.  They’re just confusing, and uncomfortable.

And I’m slipping into another one of those phases where I want to keep what’s going on in our relationship and house close to the breast.  I don’t know why I do that.

There’s something very personal about being molded into sexual property.  Of course there is.  There’s something personal to even the most casual sex, so how could there not be? Maybe that’s all it is.  Maybe sometimes I confuse “personal” with “private”.  But they’re not really interchangeable, as I see it.  Things that are private can be personal, and things that are personal can be private, but they are distinctly different in that “personal” doesn’t necessarily mean “private” so much as affecting you individually on some level.  And lord knows, I’m not allowed privacy.  Read more…

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e[lust] #21

October 27th, 2010 Comments off

Photo courtesy of Evocative Abyss

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #22? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

Important e[lust] update: e[lust] will be going on hiatus for the holidays. The editions for November and December would both occur around the holidays and I know I’ll be short on both submissions and judges as well as personal time. e[lust] #22 will return in January, with ample advance warning, so please make sure you’re subscribed for updates!

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

D/s Without the D/s?This is one of those situations in a real time D/s relationship where much of the “fun” aspects of the D/s needs to be stuffed in the closet for a bit. And for us, it’s not a great time to be either a masochist or a sadist. We can deal with that.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Yes, Jelly Sex Toys Can be DangerousEven if a jelly rubber toy says “phthalate-free”, it still can contain toxic chemicals that can cause skin reactions in some people. These toys are still non-porous and can harbor dirt and bacteria because they cannot be sanitized.

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Unfortunately, this edition has no Top Three picks as I didn’t have enough volunteer judges. If you’d like to volunteer to help, visit this page to find out more info and ensure that the Top Three picks continue.

See also: Pleasurists #101 and #100 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!  Read more…

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30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by TitsMcScandal

October 25th, 2010 Comments off

From The Upper Floor by

Rayne’s been bugging everyone for a guest post defining their kinky selves for the writing project Thirty Days of Kink. Next up, TitsMcScandal.

From TitsMcScandal’s bio: I’m a 19 year old who has always been obsessed with sex. I’m a kinky slave girl. I have also been passionate about sharing my knowledge and experiences. It is a natural progression then to have this blog.

To define my kinky self, I think a look back at where I began explains a lot of it. I was in an abusive relationship. The guy I was with controlled a lot of what I did and punished me if I did something wrong. Of course, because he was plain ole sadistic, he would punish me if I didn’t do something wrong too. Many people ask me now why I didn’t leave when I knew what was happening was wrong. It is because I got off on the pain that was being given to me. Plus, when he controlled me (by telling me what to wear or eat) it sent immediate shivers downward. Not to mention, the sex was fantastic. It was the first time I ever had done a consensual nonconsent scene. Granted, I didn’t know that it was called a ‘scene’ then, nor did I know that what we were experimenting with had a whole community out there that would have been able to harness what we were doing into something healthier and safer.  Read more…

30 Days of Kink: Define Your Kinky Self by Scarlet Lotus

October 25th, 2010 Comments off

Image By Ben Scicluna

Rayne’s asked a few of the bloggers around the web participating in the writing project Thirty Days of Kink for permission to repost their response to the question listed on Day 1. The first post is from Scarlet Lotus St. Syr at Purveyor of Pleasure. Go here for their original post: 30 Days of Kink: Define Yourself.

From Scarlet’s bio: I’m a genderqueer fat femme drag queen fagette and pomo queer intellisexual polyamorous switch. I have degrees in both Gender Studies and Psychology, both with an emphasis in sexuality. I am a writer, photographer, blogger, sex toy reviewer, and a sex-positive kink, queer, and sex educator. My spirituality comes in the form of sacred whoredom, scarlet womanhood, occultism, and magik. I am an astrologer and a practicing occultist, dabbling in multiple disciplines including sex magik, ceremonial magik, quabalah, and golden dawn, among others.

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.  Read more…

There’s no eating in the bird room. -or- Meet Cara, M’s kitty.

October 22nd, 2010 8 comments

Meet Master's kitty, Cara. Cool background, huh? M says it was an accident. It's our new Liberator throe, and my red and black corset.

Bear with me.  I’m getting somewhere.  And while this isn’t exactly BDSM-related, it is very much Master-and-our-relationship-related.

I’ve had cats on and off since I was nine.  My first was a kitten, and she was a gift from my father.  While I was at summer camp, Dad brought home a black and white furball, and let my sister name her.  Pajamas.  PJ for short.  Sis said her markings made her look like she was wearing jammies.  But there was no doubt in anyone’s mind who PJ belonged to.

When I was somewhere between ten and twelve, PJ got out the house by pushing the screen out of my bedroom window.  A dog chased her all the way to my house, and killed her in my backyard.  The only people home were me and Mom.

I went out to the backyard with my baseball bat, by myself, to chase the dog away.  And my mother? Stayed in the bathroom curling her hair.  When I told her I thought my cat was dying, she said she didn’t know what to tell me.  As I lay in the backyard stroking my dead cat’s fur, she came outside and told me I’d better get my ass in the house and get ready for school.  Then she told me I would never get another pet again.  It was my fault my cat died.  Read more…

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