Archive for September, 2010

Getting Fit: Week 8, 9, and 10

September 30th, 2010 Comments off

So… Let’s see…

As you can see, I’m sucking at remembering to write these.  I get so busy with the rest of my responsibilities that fall at the end of the week that I let this one fall by the wayside.  Maybe I should change the day I post it.  We’ll see.

I’ve been trying to make small goals for myself, but it’s not really working out like I’d hoped.  That’s totally my fault.  They’ve been really small, and I’ve mostly just blown them off. Read more…

e[lust] #20

September 29th, 2010 Comments off

Photo courtesy of Dangerous Lilly

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships – as long as the possession stuff can be fun and consensual, and not interfering with each other’s sovereignty, I think the two—cheerleading and possession—aren’t necessarily mutually exclusive.

Owned – I had almost forgotten that while here, with him, I was HIS plaything.  I was OWNED by him.  We had discussed this.  I knew the rules.  I must not forget again.

The sheer indecency of what we are doing – Is he looking for what I’m looking for? Surely so—all men want that, don’t they? A flaming succubus that comes only in the dark to bring unworldly pleasures and leave behind strange lingering dreams that spice their dutiful daytime lives.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Stop Hating on Campus Sex Education – Clearly, there is a need for this education, because if it doesn’t come from sexuality educators, it comes from word of mouth (which can often provide incorrect information), or from the internet, or from trial and error.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Is it Really “Strange” Sex?

See also: Pleasurists #96 and #97 for all your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy! Read more…

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Pick me, Kink Academy! Please?

September 29th, 2010 2 comments

Part of the reason I’m sort of disappointed in M’s lack of interest in socializing with… well, anyone, really… is the learning experience.  Discussing different techniques, and trying new things, and sometimes things we’d never be able to try at home, and hands on experience, and… I mean, gosh! Doesn’t that just sound awesome?

I mean, yeah… M’s owned my ass for almost eight years.  We’ve got nine floggers, six paddles, two canes, two crops, a buggy whip, a strap, and a viper’s tongue.  Restraints, and hoods, and gags, and blindfolds.  Rope, and chains, and anal plugs, and clamps, and sex toys out the wazoo.

But you know what we don’t got? Skillz.  Read more…

Why’s being dependent on someone so damn scary?

September 29th, 2010 Comments off

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Or not.

I have permission.  And I suppose I could still benefit from a break.  While I’m nowhere near as messed up today, there’s still that tiny twinge of what could totally turn into another all out panic attack, and the tears that have been flowing freely for a few days keep tickling the backs of my eyelids.  But I think we’ve got a handle on at least a part of the cause.  And M’s planning on getting things under control.  Or so He says.

Consistency issues are a constant theme in our relationship.  On both our parts.  One of us slips, and the other goes tumbling after them, as if we’re tethered at the hip and can’t resist.

Both of us have issues doing what we say we’re going to.  Both of us lose interest in something if we don’t see results rather quickly.  Both of us are entirely too hard on ourselves. Read more…

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Pleasurists #97

September 28th, 2010 Comments off

Altisonus by loadsatequila

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Editor’s Pick

  • A gushing review… by The Bedroom Blogger
  • The Fascinator Throe by Liberator is the best thing that has happened to my bedroom since the boyfriend. So, you may ask…what is a Fascinator Throe? To which I would respond, ‘Uh, you mean other than amazing?’ Okay, seriously…I’ll stop gushing (ha…that’s the beauty! I don’t have to!). Oh…I’m too much.

    Note: A very new reviewer with an excellent voice. I enjoyed the cliché euphemisms that she tosses around (ironically?) and her feeling about the product nearly jumped off the screen giving the medium-length review a lasting impression. It’s not always that an excitedly positive review will grab me like this one did and I look forward to forthcoming reviews.

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the reviews…  Read more…

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“You were a lot happier when I was consistent.”

September 28th, 2010 Comments off

And ya know, even though I started out freaking out about something else, when He started talking about the iron fist I keep hearing He’s gonna grab me with, I started to calm down.

And I think that’s the thing that bothers me the most.  Why’d He let it slip?

And did we ever get back to it like we’ve said countless times that we were going to?

This damn blog is getting so repetitive, and I’m starting to feel like a flake.

OMG life’s awesome! OMG I’m such a bitch! OMG I’m freaking out! OMG I hate feminists! OMG somebody was mean to me! OMG life’s awesome!


I think I’m gonna take some time.

Rayne out.

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