30 Days of Kink
So, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:
Day 2: List your kinks.
Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?
Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?
Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.
Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
Day 10: What are your hard limits?
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:
- TitsMcScandal defines her kinky self.
- Mistress Kay, from Kinky World, defines her kinky self.
- Our very own Dweaver defines his kinky self.
- 3, from Nightmare Hides, defines her kinky self.
- Rockin’, from Light Switch, defines her kinky self.
- Perverted Imp, from PervertedImp.com, defines her kinky self.
- Alison Tyler, author of Dark Secret Love, defines her kinky self.
- “Anonymous” defines their kinky self.
Great read. I’m doing the 30 days thing too on a similar blog.
I love this. I’ve been waiting to contribute. I have mine over at my blog
http://www.mundanetoms.blogspot.com
Check it out!
Im a little late but I’m starting this too http://complaisantone.wordpress.com/30-days-of-kink/ !
What a great series!
Hey, I started mine way back in March, but sort of it let it drift. http://citygalatea.wordpress.com/category/30-days-of-kink/
@Sestra, @Rain, @Mistress L, @Emma Rose, @Starberry, @Samantha, @Joy, @Faydreh, @Sephani Paige, @ Molly, @The Redheaded Slut I’ll get you guys added to the list just as soon as I have a free moment, if you’re not already. 🙂
Thanks Rayne, much appreciated. I’m having a blast doing it!
Nice, didn’t know you had your own site and the eden blog til just now. You must be a very busy woman. Lol
If it pleases you to do so, would you please add me to your list? 🙂 I’ve done about 5 and I’m trying to push myself to write more. Thanks for this awesomesauce list Rayne!! 🙂
I’m playing along! 😀
http://www.sugarcuntwrites.com/2011/07/switch-y-sugarcunt-her-slutling-30dok/
http://theredheadedslut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html
The site moved!
Hi! I don’t know if this is still being updated, but i wanted to mention that i’m also completing the challenge. (: Already up to day 7!
http://dulcib.blogspot.com/2011/08/30-days-of-kink.html
Just wanted to post my 20 Days of Kink blog posting link. Thanks for the idea!
I just started working on this yesterday: http://absinthecocktail.blogspot.com
Thank you for putting this together–it’s really helping me get back into blogging after taking a break!
Hi, I just started this yesterday.
I’d been looking for a nice self-assignment; this one is in nice bite-sized pieces, so thank you!
Almost finished this! http://deviantdildos.com/dirty-things/30-days-of-kink/