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30 Days of Kink

August 9th, 2010

30 Days of KinkSo, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Check it out! Other people are doing it, too!

I’m a trendsetter! Hee!

Seriously, though, people are joining in the kinky fun.  Here are some who defined their kinky selves for me.  I know! It’s so cool that people are willing to write for me.

And here are some other folks who’re working on this writing project on their own site. Be sure to check them out. Feel free to add your own link via the widget below.

  1. May 8th, 2011 at 02:55 | #1

    Great read. I’m doing the 30 days thing too on a similar blog.

  2. May 31st, 2011 at 22:12 | #2

    I love this. I’ve been waiting to contribute. I have mine over at my blog


    Check it out!

  3. June 1st, 2011 at 07:31 | #3

    Im a little late but I’m starting this too http://complaisantone.wordpress.com/30-days-of-kink/ !

    What a great series!

  4. June 3rd, 2011 at 22:53 | #4

    Hey, I started mine way back in March, but sort of it let it drift. http://citygalatea.wordpress.com/category/30-days-of-kink/

  5. June 7th, 2011 at 08:23 | #5

    @Sestra, @Rain, @Mistress L, @Emma Rose, @Starberry, @Samantha, @Joy, @Faydreh, @Sephani Paige, @ Molly, @The Redheaded Slut I’ll get you guys added to the list just as soon as I have a free moment, if you’re not already. 🙂

  6. June 18th, 2011 at 00:40 | #6

    Thanks Rayne, much appreciated. I’m having a blast doing it!

  7. July 15th, 2011 at 21:42 | #7

    Nice, didn’t know you had your own site and the eden blog til just now. You must be a very busy woman. Lol

    If it pleases you to do so, would you please add me to your list? 🙂 I’ve done about 5 and I’m trying to push myself to write more. Thanks for this awesomesauce list Rayne!! 🙂

  8. July 24th, 2011 at 03:47 | #8
  9. July 26th, 2011 at 13:52 | #9
  10. August 31st, 2011 at 13:17 | #10

    Hi! I don’t know if this is still being updated, but i wanted to mention that i’m also completing the challenge. (: Already up to day 7!


  11. May 2nd, 2012 at 08:22 | #11

    Just wanted to post my 20 Days of Kink blog posting link. Thanks for the idea!

  12. May 3rd, 2012 at 22:16 | #12

    I just started working on this yesterday: http://absinthecocktail.blogspot.com

    Thank you for putting this together–it’s really helping me get back into blogging after taking a break!

  13. October 9th, 2012 at 15:47 | #13

    Hi, I just started this yesterday.

    I’d been looking for a nice self-assignment; this one is in nice bite-sized pieces, so thank you!

  14. December 11th, 2012 at 23:14 | #14
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