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30 Days of Kink

August 9th, 2010

30 Days of KinkSo, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:

  1. May 8th, 2011 at 02:55 | #1

    Great read. I’m doing the 30 days thing too on a similar blog.

  2. May 31st, 2011 at 22:12 | #2

    I love this. I’ve been waiting to contribute. I have mine over at my blog


    Check it out!

  3. June 1st, 2011 at 07:31 | #3

    Im a little late but I’m starting this too http://complaisantone.wordpress.com/30-days-of-kink/ !

    What a great series!

  4. June 3rd, 2011 at 22:53 | #4

    Hey, I started mine way back in March, but sort of it let it drift. http://citygalatea.wordpress.com/category/30-days-of-kink/

  5. June 7th, 2011 at 08:23 | #5

    @Sestra, @Rain, @Mistress L, @Emma Rose, @Starberry, @Samantha, @Joy, @Faydreh, @Sephani Paige, @ Molly, @The Redheaded Slut I’ll get you guys added to the list just as soon as I have a free moment, if you’re not already. 🙂

  6. June 18th, 2011 at 00:40 | #6

    Thanks Rayne, much appreciated. I’m having a blast doing it!

  7. July 15th, 2011 at 21:42 | #7

    Nice, didn’t know you had your own site and the eden blog til just now. You must be a very busy woman. Lol

    If it pleases you to do so, would you please add me to your list? 🙂 I’ve done about 5 and I’m trying to push myself to write more. Thanks for this awesomesauce list Rayne!! 🙂

  8. July 24th, 2011 at 03:47 | #8
  9. July 26th, 2011 at 13:52 | #9
  10. August 31st, 2011 at 13:17 | #10

    Hi! I don’t know if this is still being updated, but i wanted to mention that i’m also completing the challenge. (: Already up to day 7!


  11. May 2nd, 2012 at 08:22 | #11

    Just wanted to post my 20 Days of Kink blog posting link. Thanks for the idea!

  12. May 3rd, 2012 at 22:16 | #12

    I just started working on this yesterday: http://absinthecocktail.blogspot.com

    Thank you for putting this together–it’s really helping me get back into blogging after taking a break!

  13. October 9th, 2012 at 15:47 | #13

    Hi, I just started this yesterday.

    I’d been looking for a nice self-assignment; this one is in nice bite-sized pieces, so thank you!

  14. December 11th, 2012 at 23:14 | #14
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