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30 Days of Kink

August 9th, 2010

30 Days of KinkSo, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:

  1. January 15th, 2011 at 07:37 | #1

    I appreciate you linking my blog, and I amended my first post for the Thirty Days of Kink I’ve been doing, to link back to you 🙂 Cheers,


  2. January 15th, 2011 at 16:33 | #2

    @Faydreh Oh, hey, thanks! You didn’t have to do that. I really appreciate it. 🙂

  3. March 14th, 2011 at 19:23 | #3

    I added all the days to a seperate page for easy viewing: http://redheaded-slut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html

  4. March 15th, 2011 at 06:24 | #4

    Hi Rayne

    I have finally got round to starting this project.

    You can find my 1st post here http://mollysdailykiss.com/2011/03/15/define-your-kinky-self/

    and I have also created a new page for this project with a link back to its creator….You! LOL



  5. March 17th, 2011 at 17:29 | #5

    Sounds interesting! Count me in as well! I’ll squeeze them in with my daily posts!! Cheers for this xx

  6. March 24th, 2011 at 00:11 | #6

    I completed my Thirty Days of Kink posts ^_^

  7. March 27th, 2011 at 12:36 | #7

    I started it a few days ago. On Day 6 now.

  8. April 3rd, 2011 at 23:09 | #8

    I’m doing the 30 Days in my own blog. I just finished Day 3. ^_^

  9. April 4th, 2011 at 20:57 | #9
  10. April 18th, 2011 at 13:56 | #10

    Starting my own 30 Days of Kink today!

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