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30 Days of Kink

August 9th, 2010

30 Days of KinkSo, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Check it out! Other people are doing it, too!

I’m a trendsetter! Hee!

Seriously, though, people are joining in the kinky fun.  Here are some who defined their kinky selves for me.  I know! It’s so cool that people are willing to write for me.

And here are some other folks who’re working on this writing project on their own site. Be sure to check them out. Feel free to add your own link via the widget below.

  1. January 15th, 2011 at 07:37 | #1

    I appreciate you linking my blog, and I amended my first post for the Thirty Days of Kink I’ve been doing, to link back to you 🙂 Cheers,


  2. January 15th, 2011 at 16:33 | #2

    @Faydreh Oh, hey, thanks! You didn’t have to do that. I really appreciate it. 🙂

  3. March 14th, 2011 at 19:23 | #3

    I added all the days to a seperate page for easy viewing: http://redheaded-slut.blogspot.com/p/30-days-of-kink.html

  4. March 15th, 2011 at 06:24 | #4

    Hi Rayne

    I have finally got round to starting this project.

    You can find my 1st post here http://mollysdailykiss.com/2011/03/15/define-your-kinky-self/

    and I have also created a new page for this project with a link back to its creator….You! LOL



  5. March 17th, 2011 at 17:29 | #5

    Sounds interesting! Count me in as well! I’ll squeeze them in with my daily posts!! Cheers for this xx

  6. March 24th, 2011 at 00:11 | #6

    I completed my Thirty Days of Kink posts ^_^

  7. March 27th, 2011 at 12:36 | #7

    I started it a few days ago. On Day 6 now.

  8. April 3rd, 2011 at 23:09 | #8

    I’m doing the 30 Days in my own blog. I just finished Day 3. ^_^

  9. April 4th, 2011 at 20:57 | #9
  10. April 18th, 2011 at 13:56 | #10

    Starting my own 30 Days of Kink today!

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