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30 Days of Kink

August 9th, 2010

30 Days of KinkSo, I searched “BDSM” on Tumblr and I found this list of prompts from QueerKink. It’s a list of writing prompts to help you dissect your kinks and your relationship dynamics, and give you thirty days of writing material. Here are the prompts:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch?  What parts of BDSM interest you?  Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Day 2: List your kinks.

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you?  Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink?  If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Day 20:  Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?  How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed?  How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play?  What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

Here are some guest posts from other people who wanted to define their kinky selves:

  1. September 9th, 2010 at 21:44 | #1

    Hi I just started working on this here is the short link to the first post http://wp.me/pQ6md-2a

  2. September 13th, 2010 at 20:35 | #2

    @Kathryn Added. 🙂 Thanks.

  3. September 16th, 2010 at 02:23 | #3

    Also the wonderful Gabe & Elizabeth over at Pornocracy just started too!

  4. September 16th, 2010 at 16:17 | #4

    @Scarlet Lotus Thanks for letting me know! I’ll get them added to the list. 🙂

  5. September 23rd, 2010 at 06:28 | #5

    Thanks for adding me to the list!!

  6. October 26th, 2010 at 01:58 | #6

    I’m going to start it tomorrow 🙂

  7. October 27th, 2010 at 02:43 | #7

    Thanks for adding me!

  8. October 27th, 2010 at 12:15 | #8

    Thank You for adding me.

  9. October 28th, 2010 at 12:29 | #9

    I’ve been working on this series as well, and I would greatly appreciate being added to the list.


  10. November 2nd, 2010 at 16:44 | #10

    I just started this on my own blog, I loved the idea and decided to go for it myself!


  11. November 3rd, 2010 at 16:22 | #11

    @K Adding you to the list now. 🙂

    @Rose For some reason you’re getting caught by Akismet as spam. I deleted your second comment. Adding you to the list now. 🙂

    @Everyone – Thanks for participating!

  12. November 7th, 2010 at 03:12 | #12

    @Rayne – How weird!

  13. November 7th, 2010 at 14:10 | #13

    How did I miss this when it was originally posted, and then the subsequent postings? Obviously I am sorely behind in my blog reading. Anyway, thank goodness for the many avenues of communication that is the net, and that I saw your post on Fet, right?

    I am working on a way to incorporate this into my blog as well. What a great meme!


  14. December 1st, 2010 at 10:44 | #14

    Hey, GREAT list!! I just wanted to chime in that I’m joining in on the kinky fun too!! Started day 1 today in fact… 🙂

  15. December 13th, 2010 at 18:21 | #15

    @Jade @Evey Y’all are up! Thanks for participating. 🙂

  16. January 3rd, 2011 at 23:23 | #16

    This project was just the thing to inspire me to explore my kink and write about it! Thanks!


  17. January 11th, 2011 at 13:30 | #17

    I’ve started this project also, it’s going to be an interesting and eventful 30 days of blogging. I’ve given credit where credit is due.


  18. January 11th, 2011 at 13:31 | #18


    Helps if I put a link eh? *blush*


  19. January 11th, 2011 at 14:18 | #19

    @Kari Rose Lol. It totally does. Thanks… adding you now. 🙂

    @Janey Arson Awesome! I’m adding you to the list.

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