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Lucy! You got some ‘splainin to do!

December 12th, 2009

i-love-lucy--tv-historyI don’t understand the concept of forced orgasms.

I don’t understand a lot, it seems.

I know so many submissives whose owners string them up and Hitachi them (or whatever method they prefer) to orgasm after orgasm until they beg to be left alone.  And I don’t understand either side of the coin.

I understand being so tired that you don’t think another orgasm is possible.  I understand a raw clit and sore pussy lips.  I understand it burning when you pee in the morning cause you’ve actually rubbed skin off.  I’ve done all those things.

I don’t understand begging it for it to stop.

And I don’t understand the motivation behind Hitachi-ing a submissive to death.  I mean, how is suffering orgasm after orgasm at the hands of your owner… well, suffering? And how could any dominant type believe that it is?

I get the ones who just like to make a woman cum (cause it seems to be more prevalent in male dominant/female submissive relationships/scenes).  The ones who need it to keep their ego in tact or just really like watching her or…  I get the ones who just make her cum cause it’s fun.  And perhaps that’s all it is for most.

But I hear so many talk about suffering.  And I just don’t see it.

So! ‘Splain! Tell me what it is about forced orgasms that turns your crank.  Whether you’re dominant or submissive.  Curious minds wanna know!

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  1. December 12th, 2009 at 10:51 | #1

    The “suffering” comes from having repeated orgasms over time. Just like any other set of muscles (and, as you know, the orgasm is muscular contraction), the muscles that give your your O will get tired and worn out after a period of time. So, yeah, eventually, having repeated orgasms will get to the point where you suffer.

    Now, that particular point will be different for each individual, and will vary based on how strong your orgasms are. Maybe you just need someone to come string you up and Hitachi you for a few hours. lol 😉

  2. December 12th, 2009 at 11:10 | #2

    I’ve never done the “Hitachi’d to death” scene, so I can’t speak to that, but I think the coming until it actually hurts (as Alexa mentions above) muscles exhausted, etc., might constitute suffering. I mean, it still feels good at the moment, but, damn, it hurts too. You’re just…fucking exhausted, physically. I mean, the definition of suffering (to undergo or feel pain or distress) would apply there I would think.

    I don’t know if I would characterize my own forced orgasm scenarios as “suffering” per se, I mean, seriously, in the end there’s the big yummy reward of the orgasm itself, but maybe so…a couple of specific instances I can think of are one in the very beginning of my explorations in the world of public kink, in which I was forced to come in a (very) public venue. Yes, it was kink-friendly, but that is something that used to be embarrassing to the point that it made me cry when it happened (it is still embarrassing to me, for whatever messed-up reason, but not nearly so much as in the beginning.) That could maybe be characterized as emotional suffering, I suppose. The second was a painful orgasm because the muscles contracted (hard, painfully) around objects inserted in me, so that was actual physical suffering.

    So, yes, I can see where someone might call it that.

  3. December 13th, 2009 at 11:13 | #3

    @Alexa @Jade Maybe I’m doin’ it wrong, then. Cause on the days M makes me masturbate over and over for hours the most that happens is my hand cramps and the skin rubs off. Lol.

  4. December 14th, 2009 at 15:12 | #4

    You said that you’re being forced to masturbate for hours on end. But that still gives you the ultimate control over it. Whenever I’ve had orgasms forced upon me, I’m restrained and have absolutely no control. Even if I want the pressure to slow down for a minute, I can’t control it. I can’t put *just a little* less pressure on my clit, or move the toy *this much* to the right so that it’s not DIRECTLY hitting that spot, like I can when I’m masturbating myself. SO when I’m doing it myself, while it’s still too much and hurts and I pretty much want to stop, I can control it just a little.

    When I’m restrained and being forced to come over and over with no break in between, there’s no coming down. My body wants to come down from the orgasm, regroup for a minute, but it can’t. It’s not forcing 20 orgasms over a day. It’s forcing 20 orgasms IN A ROW with no break, no let up on the pressure, nothing. And its intense. And it starts to hurt. And eventually I cry. Why does Master like it? Well, it’s the perfect combination of pleasure and pain. He’s getting me off and hurting me all at the same time: His two favorite things.

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