Archive for March 17th, 2009

Relationship “Shoulds”

March 17th, 2009 2 comments

Deleted threads piss me off. I don’t care who did the deleting. The OP, the group owner, a mod, my best friend… It pisses me off. Especially when there is good advice in the thread. If you must moderate, delete the offending comments and instruct the participators to keep their comments on point.  But don’t delete the whole damn thread!

There was a thread on FL about a couple experimenting with a M/M/F threesome. At some point, a lot of debate on whether or not the OP was honorable in his post or in life began which had no place in the thread. Regardless of what really happened and whether or not the OP is honorable, the question is valid and the situation is one that arises often.

The basic gist…

A dom and his slave decide to involve themselves in a M/M/F threesome. Before the act, the dom tells his slave he wants her to “lose herself”. Pretend he isn’t there but he’ll be involving himself when he wants to. Basically, he wanted her to be as big of a whore as possible. To not let the fact that he was there allow her to hold back her desires. The slave obeys but, in the process, ignores her owner when he tries to get involved.

A lot of people got hung up on the details. Ripped apart the OP for being angry that his slave followed his orders. And then started going through his profile and past posts with the obvious intention of discrediting him.

But the details aren’t relevant to the question. At least, I didn’t think they were. Which is why I summed it up as best I could here and left out the parts that had nothing to do with the question, which was should the slave have been more aware of her owner’s frame of mind and acted accordingly.

There were a lot of people saying “She did what you told her to. You had no right to be angry.” I call bull shit.

No one goes into a threesome, no matter the persuasion of the relationship or any directives in place, expecting to be ignored. Hell… I’m a slave and I got pretty pissed off when Master and I had our first threesome (which was M/F/F) and I ended up a third wheel. It wasn’t intentional. The bed was too small and we were in weird positions. As soon as He realized I was getting frustrated, He did what He could to adjust. And afterward, things went smoothly.

Till it was time to send her home. I never know how to do that politely… lol. “Thanks for fucking us. Have a nice day!” just sounds… rude.  Read more…

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