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Training your wife

July 18th, 2006 Comments off

I’ve had an opportunity, recently, to talk to a couple that is now married and is trying out the Master/slave lifestyle. The slave is involved with The Submissive Wife.

At first, my gut instinct told me that this really can’t be a good idea. What I’ve heard (specifically about the Master or Dominant not being allowed involvement) made me immediately cringe and label this group as “bad”.

However, it’s always ignorant to judge something without researching it, and that’s what I’ve begun to do.

Let me say this, first… For those of you that are married and just starting to explore being Master and slave, the worst possible thing you can do is allow someone else (individual or group) to train your wife, especially if your involvement is prohibited. I don’t care about their alleged posts from slaves that state that the instruction through the site saved their marriages, and am willing to bet there’s more to that story than what’s posted there.

Let’s face facts… for a married couple to enter into this type of arrangement, it is ultimately to make them both happy. It is the Masters (and husbands) wishes that need to be attended to. Any training that *excludes* the Master (and husband) *cannot* ultimately train the slave to be what her owner desires, at least in the beginning of the relationship. There’s some argument for sending a slave, eventually, to another who is more experienced for refinement, but the initial training should always be by the owner of the slave, no exception. (This does not have any bearing, of course, on training the slave received before being with her current owner). Read more…

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A Master?

July 17th, 2006 No comments

On occasion rayne runs into some things that make her really sit back and just say, "What… the fuck?" In these instances, she"s almost always already written her blog entry for the day and she knows that if she doesn"t write about it right this minute she"ll forget what it was. Today is one of those instances. Of course, she probably should either ask Master to look into revamping the blogs (again) so that they do running entries for days like today, or figure out how to do it herself (though she"s not really that far in her foray into learning about web-building and design – perhaps she should get a move on, eh?).

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Waking Up

July 17th, 2006 No comments

When rayne was a little girl, she used to get out of bed when her alarm went off and crawl into her parents" bed while they showered. Whose pillow she lay on depended on who she was closest to at that moment but it was usually her father"s. she"d run her fingers over the sateen sheets, snuggle into the million and one blankets on the bed, and pretend that this big comfy mattress fit for a king (or an officer in the military, as the case may be) was hers. But mostly she"d just try to capture a few more moments of being close to these people she wanted to love but never could before she went off to school.

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Training

July 16th, 2006 No comments

This one"s beginning to wonder how it is people think that being a slave can be easy. Master revamped her training recently and things are rough. Forgetting to do things is no longer an option and is a punishable offense.

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Discussion and a New Beginning

July 13th, 2006 No comments

rayne"s not really sure how to describe what took place yesterday. The discussion seemed long because it took place over a period of about four hours, but part of that was because Master was at work when we had it. We talked about her mind being in the wrong place and the things we both want. she asked Him to be brutally honest with her and not protect her feelings.

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What would you say?

July 12th, 2006 No comments

This one finds it difficult, these days, to articulate her thoughts on subjects such as the ideas and opinions of others when she is asked. Mostly it"s things that her submissive friends and aquaintances find helpful and/or enjoy and talk to her about and rayne either doesn"t agree with them or doesn"t know enough to hold an opinion on them. One such situation came up yesterday with another woman, and rayne listened to the description of a place she holds dear and just sort of kept her opinion to herself.

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